A bit of reality today

We are on a high from yesterday….lol…just a little….But, I want to talk about something else. John’s not acting quite right. It’s a funny thing, you can never know when a symptom means cancer is growing back or not. But, changes are not good most of the time.

here’s what I see. he has headaches that Tylenol is not relieving (symptom of possible building pressure in the brain), less stamina, lowered appetite, less endurance on his right side, falling more often.

What does this mean? who the heck knows, really. It means you call the oncology triage nurse. she runs through his symptoms and questions you about whether he is sleeping more than usual (yes) coherent (yes) vomiting (no) confused (no)….then she says if he vomits over the weekend please call and alert the er you are bringing him in. (he’s not a puker, so I doubt that would happen anyway). the call to the triage nurse is always riddled with anxiety. she reaffirms that I know my child best (I like that) she validates my concerns (thank God) then asks questions that turn my stomach over in anxiety unknown to the average person.

To me the questions spur on the picture of what the end might look like. and it scares me. I shove that to the back of my mind.

So, he will be seen monday and a new mri taken shortly afterward. for now we buy stock in Tylenol and walgreens for selling the stuff. seriously. I’m the local Tylenol dispensary. There are times when we go through a bottle a week. this is one of those weeks….

Its ok, *breathe* we are all ok. John is tired and tired. worn and petered out. it is what it is and guess what, since I know I can’t change it. I’m ok with it. God has a bigger plan, be it healing or not. We maintain our faith not on an outcome, but in Gods bigger plan that we cant always see.

with much love and affection,  Faith

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5 thoughts on “A bit of reality today

  1. Jeremiah 29:11 “For I know the plans I have for you, declared The Lord, plans to prosper you, not to harm you. Plans to give you HOPE and a future”

    There’s a reason why you’re going through this situation! God has a plan for your family and it is NOT to harm your family. So no matter what the outcome turn out to be, God is still faithful! Remember, you only see what’s in front of you while God sees the full picture so put all of your trust in him and allow him to be your comfort! Dwell in his presence. In the midst of your situation, give him praise with no worries because when the praises goes up blessings comes down. God loves you and your family and he will never do anything to harm you guys! Be encouraged and keep the faith! I will keep you and your family in my prayers. God bless!

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